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[alexandral]

+ I have got a sleeping sickness. I sleep and sleep and have naps in between and feel lazy-boned..

+ Because of sleeping during all spare time I haven’t watched/read much. I am getting through "A Feast for Crows", but very slowly – you know, I don’t mind getting old but my eyes are not as they used to be. Never mind, there are good things about getting older too..

+ I have a LJ crisis – over the last 10 month I have accumulated 3 or 4 LJ’s that I have added to my friends list and they didn’t add me back. I don’t have a problem with it at all – I mostly added these LJ’s to my friends list because there is something of interest to me in their contents, and they could not see anything in my LJ of interest to them, so this is totally cool.. The problem I just realise is that what if they would rather that I have deleted them from my friends list?? How can I know??? Even if they don’t say in their Userinfo?? I am in tortures of uncertainty?? Shall I go clean and remove them all from my friends list??

+ Veronica/Logan - O YES!!!! Kind umeedmerchant wrote in her comment that Jason Dohring is 24 years old and YES, that makes me feel better!! Only a little, the rest of my attraction to the very young Logan I put down to my inner-teen (soniag.:)

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[queenofthorns.livejournal.com]

Darling, I hope my post from yesterday didn’t precipitate any kind of friending/not-friending anxiety... There’s only ONE person ever in the history of my LJ whom I just wished would not even have me on her friends’ list, and I’ve had this journal for nearly four years, so I should just say that I was very, very, very sorely tried and that is the reason I wanted her to just please go away... but I cannot imagine that anyone would feel that way about you!

As for not friending people back, well, obviously I have you friended, but when people friend me, I go to their journals and read some of their entries for a while and I try to feel out whether we have more than just one single interest in common – as you know, I kind of flit from interest to interest, and nearly all my fandom posts are pretty public anyway, so I don’t like to friend people based on a passing interest in something-or-other only to deal with the potential drama of unfriending, because some people take it very personally... I dunno – I suppose there’s no really nice way to deal with it at all, right? Heh!

[alexandral.livejournal.com]

I hope my post from yesterday didn’t precipitate any kind of friending/not-friending anxiety...

O, totally no! I was thinking about this for a while – I have 3 or so people on my friends list whose entries I like to read from time to time, but who didn’t add me. I am totally cool with this, but I was forever wondering if there is unspoken LJ code not to do this kind of thing. I am feeling much better now because everybody thinks it is fine. I am used to my friends list page now, it is my daily reading.. :)

As for not friending people back, well, obviously I have you friended, but when people friend me, I go to their journals and read some of their entries for a while and I try to feel out whether we have more than just one single interest in common

I do this too, though I usually add everybody back :). Then I had a spurt when I deleted few people from the friends list, mostly because we never spoke a word to each other, and yes - I felt guilty about it :)

Thank you so much!