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[alexandral]

+ I have got a sleeping sickness. I sleep and sleep and have naps in between and feel lazy-boned..

+ Because of sleeping during all spare time I haven’t watched/read much. I am getting through "A Feast for Crows", but very slowly – you know, I don’t mind getting old but my eyes are not as they used to be. Never mind, there are good things about getting older too..

+ I have a LJ crisis – over the last 10 month I have accumulated 3 or 4 LJ’s that I have added to my friends list and they didn’t add me back. I don’t have a problem with it at all – I mostly added these LJ’s to my friends list because there is something of interest to me in their contents, and they could not see anything in my LJ of interest to them, so this is totally cool.. The problem I just realise is that what if they would rather that I have deleted them from my friends list?? How can I know??? Even if they don’t say in their Userinfo?? I am in tortures of uncertainty?? Shall I go clean and remove them all from my friends list??

+ Veronica/Logan - O YES!!!! Kind umeedmerchant wrote in her comment that Jason Dohring is 24 years old and YES, that makes me feel better!! Only a little, the rest of my attraction to the very young Logan I put down to my inner-teen (soniag.:)

Comments

[koalathebear.livejournal.com]

I also have sleeping sickness.

As to the friends issue. I have 73 people who have added me and I did not add them back. I don't have a problem with them adding me and wanting to read my public posts and I don't expect them to delete me just because I didn't add them. I think that most people should understand that while some journals are interactive, some are just for reading. Often when I add people I have no expectation that they will add me back, I just want to read what they have to say. I actually get more frustrated when people add me and get offended when I don't want to add them back.

I'm rambling but my theory is that if they have public content, presumably they don't mind if people add and read and unless they state in their user info that they would rather you didn't add them, then it's fine :) Just my 3 cents ;) Sorry if this makes no sense. I'm very sleepy. :)

[alexandral.livejournal.com]

Oh, it makes perfect sense - this is what I think most of the time - that if people don't state otherwise in the User info they fine with somebody adding them and if they don't add you back they sort of say "I don't think I have many common interests with you", which is fine totally. Thank you for commenting, I really wanted to know what other people think and if there is an unspoken LJ etiquette which says otherwise.

I always try and read User Info just in case, some User info are so revealing