Fandom

[alexandral]

I was thinking a lot today and yesterday and decided to make clear my own position on some things, mainly because at some point I did join with the fandom crowd in laughing (only indirectly and nobody probably knew, but I still did) in the latest Fandom Scandal:

Even if I find somebody’s position and actions wrong I really really dislike bad talking and mocking behind this person’s back. Even if this first person is wrong. I dislike it much more then first person’s wrong actions and positions. I am more then fine with disagreements and even arguments, and even if people say not only nice things to each other.. But mocking the others not in their presence – IS WRONG in my book..

Because of it I do apologise for having an un-intentional laugh to the person involved in the latest Fandom Scandal.

(And it is definitely JUST ME!!!!!)

Comments

[shadowserenity.livejournal.com]

I know what you mean. Seeing this sort of drama makes me want to retreat back into my safe place. I vowed to leave this stuff behind in the Star Wars fandom (I was a real gossiper and I made sure I knew most things that were happening on the messageboard I visited). Sure I've thought about posting a little rant somedays, but... it would just make me feel horrible. And if I mock people, then I think it becomes a case of what goes around comes around, in that I'm asking to be mocked.

Hon, I think you're a good person that would never seek to hurt anyone *hug*.

[alexandral.livejournal.com]

Thank you very much for understanding!