but i get upset sometimes if things go "the wrong way" ;)

You're not the only one. A lot of peole feel that way. :)

I'm not sure why I don't. I guess I just like to see where the writers are going to go with the characters.

Funny thing is I do get annoyed when books don't go the way I think they should. Maybe that's why I don't read a lot of fanfic. I'm just like.....That character would never do that...when I read some of it. :)