What annoyed me was the fact that she couldn't defend herself at all. She punched him after he did it and it was just another case of the author showing us how weak Bella was in comparison to all the men around her. Let me tell you something, warewolf or not, I bet you a million dollars (Euros?) that there is one very sensitive place in his body that is not made of steel and would have had him crying on the floor in three seconds flat if she'd kicked him there.

If she just had Jacob away for some years and after that coming back and imprinting on Bella's daughter when she is already adult??

It would have been better, but I'd probably still be creeped out. I mean, why SMeyer, out of all the people in Forks, why Bella's kid? WHY?!